28 reflections in (almost) 28 years - Part I

I can't believe I'm almost 28. It seems so surreal to be edging closer to the 30 mark!!

 This 4 part series explores some of my life reflections and lessons to date.
In no particular order here are the first 7.
  1. Love yourself 
If you truly love yourself you won't settle for a version of love that appears to be the real deal at first glance but actually offers what is "love plated".

  1. Get into the habit of saving 
The discipline of saving is an important one to grasp in early adult life, because financial demands and pressures only get more intense as life progresses. As Tesco says: "every little helps"!

  1. Don't overthink things 
I've often prevented myself from doing things because of the (mostly negative) "what if" scenarios played out in my head beforehand. Don't let what isn't stop you from what could be. 

  1. Transparency is attractive 
You'll be surprised how many people will be drawn to your openness, and as a result become open themselves. But note: there's a time and a place for transparency, knowing this comes with maturity.

  1. Let go quickly 
Holding grudges only holds you back. It seems like a protective measure at first, but is really just a form of unforgiveness - it's actually just a mental prison - free yourself. 

  1. Comparison is a killer 
I can't stress this enough. I spent so many years of my life wanting to be like this person, sound like that person, have skin like her, or influence like him.... Its futile, you weren't created to be them for a reason. Use your energy to cultivate the things that make you you instead!

  1. Don't define your beauty by societies standard 
You. Are. Beautiful. Flaws. And. All. 

That's part 1 complete. 
The next 7 will be tackled in part 2!
What are your thoughts so far? Feel free to comment below.

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